Less interview, more coffee.
That's what guests tell me once we stop recording, and it's the point. People tell better stories when they aren't performing them. So I try to make it feel like a catch-up with someone curious, because that's what it is.
"This has been fun. It felt like we were just having a cup of coffee together."
Priyanka ShahraSwapaholic · EP15"It was a pleasure. You create the space for me, the safe space to share all these things. And I'm grateful for having that."
Claudiu PetriaQuesto · EP14"Thanks for all your very insightful questions. It gave me a lot to think about."
Vinayak VarmaAuthor & illustrator · EP5"I had a good time sharing this with you. So thank you for having me, and I hope this is useful for anyone who listens to it."
Joe KhooPolar Cold · EP11Four steps, none of them homework.
- 01
A coffee first
A half-hour call, usually. I want to hear the story before anyone presses record.
- 02
A rough outline
I send you the shape of the conversation. Not a script. Change anything that doesn't sound like you.
- 03
We talk
About 90 minutes on Riverside, from your desk or your kitchen. It's a browser link, nothing to install.
- 04
You stay in the loop
I tell you when it goes live and what we made from it. You pick the clips you'd like to share, if any.
Who sits in the other chair.
Founders, yes. Also a football coach, a children's book illustrator, an educator and someone running a single coffee bar. Mostly not AI startups. There's plenty of that elsewhere.
What they share is that they're somewhere in the messy middle, and they're honest about it.
A sewage engineer who spent years being told his tank was impossible.Tharun Kumar · EcoSTP
The coach who built India's blind football team from scratch.Sunil J. Mathew · Indian Blind Football Federation
The man who found poison in your curtains.Nanda Kumar · The Yellow Dwelling
A children's book illustrator working out what AI means for his craft.Vinayak Varma · Author & illustrator
Someone turning Bali's garbage into soil in 24 hours.Tobias Wilson · Shiva Industries
A venture builder who opened a coffee bar. It won gold in five months.Ivan Chandra Suriady · Paco Coffee
Who should I be talking to?
A lot of these conversations started with an introduction. If someone comes to mind, someone mid-build who'd tell the truth about it, just send me their name. I'll take it from there.
It's the most useful thing anyone can send me.
A note you can forward
"Arjun hosts Building Real: long, unscripted conversations with people in the middle of building something. It starts with a short call and there's no prep. I think your story would make a great one. buildingreal.com/be-on-the-show"
Tell me more.
A few lines is plenty. I read every one myself. If it feels like a fit, I'll suggest a short call. If the timing isn't right, I'll tell you that too.
No scripts. No manufactured drama. No "five hacks." Just the process of how it actually happens, told by the person living it.
Fifteen conversations so far and the next chair is open
All guests →
Tharun KumarEcoSTP
Dhruv ShankerMad Onion Slicer
Barry OoiChengal Centre
Nanda KumarThe Yellow Dwelling
Vinayak VarmaAuthor & illustrator
Supriya PanchangamFuture Founders Co.
Sunil J. MathewBlind Football Federation
Karthik SrinivasanEverything Motorcycling
Kunjpreet AroraAngirus Industries
Vic LevitinDiptera.ai
Joe KhooPolar Cold
Tobias WilsonShiva Industries
Ivan Chandra SuriadyPaco Coffee
Claudiu PetriaQuesto
Priyanka ShahraSwapaholic- You?The next chair
